I’ll start off by apologising for not being a consistent writer. School work has occupied a lot of my time. No long talk. Let’s begin.
I’m sure alot of you would be like, why does this girl pick boring topics?😂 Don’t worry I’ll try to make this as interesting as possible.
Talking about an inner circle, Its a small, intimate, and often influential group of people. I’m a person who could relate with people easily at the same time, try not to go beyond my standards. My inner circle could be made up of just a person and I, it could be a group of few friends and I; basically I try to keep it little and real.
I’m a teenager so I’ll try to relate this with everyone of my age grade.
On a regular basis, I hear people complaining or rather gossiping about their so called “Friends” and in my mind I’m like, saying things behind their back isn’t the solution. Talk to them. Your guy has mouth odour, call him to a private corner, tell him or her. She smells, politely tell her that she should take care of herself. You feel the person isn’t behaving right; tell them. It doesn’t take anything from you but courage. Don’t be the first to carry negative gist about your friends to other people. You have the mind to talk to others about it then why not tell the main victim.
Personally, I believe that one should keep their circle small. You don’t have to have alot of friends to be happy, just a few good ones is enough. What’s the use of being GUYS, if you can’t open up to each other🤷🏿?
You’ll go about yelling “REAL NIGGAS ONLY GOT A FEW” or “YOU’RE MY GUY TILL WE DIE” or better still “WE’VE BEEN GUYS FROM DAY 01”. Enough of the yelling! Live by your words. I know it’s not easy opening up about personal issues to people because of the fear of it being used against you, but too be honest, if you still doubt your friends then you can’t refer to them as friends.
In as much as I’m encouraging you all to be able to open up to your friends, I want you to know that Not everyone you move with or talk to is your Guy, your friend or your OG. The earlier you realise this, the better it is for you.
Surround yourself with people who motivate and inspire you. People who are ready to take risks for your progress. At the same time, try to be you. Don’t be someone else just because you want to fit in. If the circle isn’t meant for you, move on! Find people who appreciate and love you the way you are.
The main point here is Be Real and surround yourself with real people.
“You don’t have to change a thing, the world could change its heart”.
Accept yourself, Be proud of your flaws because it’s what makes you Unique!❤✨